There comes a moment when you realize you’ve crossed over.
Not because you’re no longer hurting—
but because you’re no longer begging.
You stop asking people to love you.
You stop bending into shapes that feel foreign just to keep someone around.
You stop seeking validation for your softness, your strength, your soul.
And in that space, something sacred happens:
You choose you.
Today I had an epiphany.
All the tears, all the healing, all the surrender—it wasn’t just for me.
It was for a friend, a sister, a mom, a daughter. It was for every woman still tangled in the grief of letting go.
Because when she/they are ready to walk through the fire I just crawled out of.
And I know the way.
Not perfectly. Not without bruises.
But I know the path—
The one that begins the moment you say,
“Enough. I deserve more.”
I’ve been writing it, painting it, blogging it.
And now I can hand them a map made from my own pieces.
This is how we rise.
Together.
First, for ourselves.
Then, for the ones still trying to remember who they are. 🫶🏼🔆🦋
Here I have listed the steps I’ve taken to go back to myself and reclaim my power and my life back.
✨ “The Way Back to You”
A soul guide to reclaiming your worth after walking away from a love that wasn’t true.
🌑 Step 1: The Break - When the Heart Breaks, the Soul Speaks. The sacred unraveling—the moment you finally say “no more.”
Affirmation:
“I no longer shrink to be chosen. I am worthy of love that doesn’t require self-abandonment.”
🌒 Step 2: The Leap - Trusting the Unknown
Theme: The terrifying yet freeing moment you walk away from everything familiar.
Affirmation:
“I release the need to know how it will unfold. I trust that walking away is walking toward something greater.”
🌓 Step 3: The Void - The Sacred Stillness. Sitting in the emptiness and silence where you once felt so full of someone else.
Affirmation:
“In the quiet, I find myself. I am learning to be whole without needing to be filled.”
🌔 Step 4: The Mirror: Facing Your Truth with Compassion. Looking inward without judgment—acknowledging patterns and pain without shame.
Affirmation:
“I hold my past with compassion. I no longer carry blame—I carry wisdom.”
🌕 Step 5: The Devotion - Radical Self-Care as Sacred Rebirth. Committing to your healing as an act of divine reverence.
Affirmation:
“I devote my energy to my own becoming. My care is no longer conditional—it is constant.”
🌖 Step 6: The Voice - Telling Your Truth Out Loud. Owning your story, speaking your pain and power without fear.
Affirmation:
“My voice is sacred. I speak from the fire of truth and the softness of my becoming.”
🌗 Step 7: The Rise - Reclaiming Joy and Power. Rebuilding with new strength, finding purpose in the pieces.
Affirmation:
“I rise from my ashes with clarity and grace. I am the author of my new chapter.”
🌘 Step 8: The Gift - Becoming the Guide for Others. Using your transformation to inspire, support, and lead others home to themselves.
Affirmation:
“My healing is a gift I now share. I am the mirror, the map, the muse.”
I hope with this blog I get to reach as many souls who are hurting right now and think that there’s no way out. There’s one, and all it starts within you.🙏♥️🦋
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With love & magic, 🦋♥️
Jenn SHEr The Divine Muse
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